I’ve been writing this blog for eight months and that seems like an arbitrary amount of time for a personal finance check-in. OK, here I go.
Mortgage: $250,700* (I wrote in the original post that it was $252,700. When I checked again, I realized I was about $2,000 off…in my favour. Isn’t that a nice surprise!)
Car Loan: $3,770
Student Loan: $1,470
Credit Card: $400 (dropped at the dentist, will be paid by my benefits plan)
My financial life has improved dramatically since I started this blog. It’s partially because I’m working more freelance and making more money, and it’s also partially due to the fact that I’m sharing the load with someone else. I’m also spending less on things that don’t matter, and spending more on things that do. But the number one reason it’s improved so much is that I’ve taken responsibility for my financial life.
Perhaps this is TMI. But here’s the deal, if I open up about my financial life…it gives you permission to open up about yours. Not neccessarily to me. (Although if you’re feeling emboldened by my admissions, you can comment about where you’re at or you can email me.) You can also spill to someone you love or a professional. Trust me, talking about it makes it 1,000 times better.
Sure, you may think about your finances. You may spend hours dreaming up horrific scenarios about your house of cards (or debt) collapsing all around you. I know that’s how I used to live. I remember going to see a comedy movie with friends, and spending the entire hour and a half OBSESSING about my credit card debt. I sat there faking laughter when everyone else laughed, but on the inside I was having a panic attack thinking: “how am I ever going to pay this thing off?!?!”
I did, but only because I faced my financial fears. And you can too.
This was a lot like one of those memory shows that sitcoms used to do. I always hated those. Sorry.